PAIN - LOSS

The world is full of strange things that seem natural in our eyes because they are natural but their sensation is never natural to the one who meets them.
Today I want to manifest and show a case of one of those things and that thing is the pain of loss, how the efforts or passions of our lives accumulate over months and years only to be lost in a matter of one second. We find it hard to believe that what we have built over the time of our whole lives or what we've lived by all this time has gone and vanished in one second because for all the time we've been building or living by this thing/person we were constantly denying that it could ever be gone but suddenly it's vanished.
Whether the pain of loss that we have gone through is the death of a beloved or an idol, a denial for all the progress we've made for a certain cause or even a loss of a moral we've grown by for the rest of our lives it's inevitable that one will lose such a thing throughout their life but what must be understood is that we are humans that have grown from inventing fire as if it's a miracle to now surpassing the velocity of sound as if it's nothing, we are a constantly evolving race and we were made for nothing certain but to adapt to any conditions that we could possible adapt to which does not mean we should not mourn upon our loss but that we accept our loss and use it to evolve ourselves because in my opinion the strongest evolving occurs when we go through pain.
I am not an optimist, just try to relate beyond the lines.